poems from the soul road
Table of Contents
Dandelion • Unfolding • The Wind • The Three Sisters • The Bending • Tending • Soften
Autobiography • Falling • Enough • Broken • Lady Slipper • A Yellow Door • And Yet
dandelion
I am a common weed
I used to believe I was at the mercy
of the wind
whip wirl wack me down
until
I looked 15 feet deep
into my taproot
stitched widespread
into the ground
sturdy thick capable of
accessing deep seated nutrients
making them available to others
and at the same time
break hard soil
aerating the earth
they roared,
“Nothing can tear you apart!”
I looked up and saw
my crown
regenerating
the three celestial bodies cycling
Oh sun; you glorious yellow light
Oh dispersing seeds like stars
Oh milky white lunar ball,
protecting from any storm
572 wished every time
to live a longevity beyond most
Oh holy flower
Unfolding
I carry the laundry up
and dump in onto the living room floor
with deep hope
that the owners will sort sift fold
any carry it away
it’s predictable
the piles transform into furniture
the dog makes her bed
stretching out
I yell out short words
and threats
sometimes I give up, give in
I find a seat, fold and pray
for peace
the news is unfolding
hurts, accidents, illnesses, injustices, losses
my brother just died
there is no way to sort fold and put away
so I ask the dog to move over
I stretch out head to toe
and I unfold
The Wind
The wind has a lot to say today
unlike yesterday under her stale aggressive silence
she swings open the gate
and lets the ghosts in
it is not a storm
or a gentle breeze
she is telling my story
of the last 10 years
the one that started and ended
in hospital beds with plastic white bracelets
there is no fear in the telling
or the listening
The Three Sisters
Today defined what I already knew
I have been holding up the sky all this time
“What do you want to be?”
“One of the three sisters of course
Forsythia, Crocus, or Daffodil”
She who comes before Winter
bids her final farewell
“What do you want to do?”
“Wake up,” she says
As she drinks in the morning sun
and during the day laughs at the absurdity
of holding up the sky
and at night, bows to the moon's holy crescendo
“Who do you want to be?”
“A believer”
The Bending
I used to believe mountains
were for climbing
defining impossibility
an overwhelming task
formed by plates pushing
pulling, a volcanic eruption
a massive collision of
Time
And yet mountains
bend
change
are not defined as everlasting or
Solitary
Impossibility becomes unmasked
I always hated the bend in my back
unseen weight on my shoulders
What if the bending, shifting, changing,
erosion of time was the holy work
And what if the
impossibility
Overwhelming climb
was just really for us to shift
move closer together
And the bend of my shoulders is
simply a prayer of possibility
Tending
(after breaking before mending)
Gather the sticks
Lay them purposefully over last night’s ashes
I know
The wood is wet from earth’s downpour
Light the match
It will catch
And go out quickly
Many times, seven or seventeen
Clear away the kindling
Begin again
Whisper a steady breath into
the spark
When it goes out
Take three deep breaths
Try again
This is expected
Kneel closer
Add the light
Tend
Tend to the flame like your newborn
Food and air
A gentle breeze
Slowly add denser wood
Find the cracks
Open your lungs
Eventually the light will carry itself
But for now
Wait watch warm your tender heart
Tomorrow you can buy a fire starter
Soften
at 49.9 they removed my uterus
and in the last 8 days
I became soft
like the milkweed
the front tire on the way to the doctors this morning
and my lost cat
I miss her
I don't think it was just the uterus
or 4 babies
or cancer
or osteoporosis
or Gabe’s diagnosis
or finances, hospitals, houses, jobs
I survived time
as it
tossed and bossed me in rounds
but
now
a silent eruption of softness
to relax my shoulders
to open
to let go of expectation
to attend
to heal without trying
and grow in capacity for delight
it is time
to become
SOFT
Autobiography
Every first light
I gaze outside my living room window
This Spring it has taken longer
My friend tells me something happened during the winter
A thaw followed by a bossy freeze
I assumed it was my reckless pruning with my rusty ancient trimmers
But as morning took her seat
She leaned in and whispered,
“It doesn’t matter if the forsythia blooms.”
Falling
Do you know?
bats only fly
from height
falling
into air into space
they cannot take off from solid ground
and just like that
I understand that
my wings are bat wings
and that falling
is the only way
I can
Soar
Enough
my right wing is wounded
wound up tight
over-use injury
bearing the iron of todays and tomorrows
an ancestral pattern needed no more
flying is off limits
she whispers
“Ease up”
“Ease up”
I tell her without saying a word
“I have 4 chicks”
she whispers
“Is there more?”
“Oh yes,
it’s the fear
of not enough”
I bow with my bandaged wing
collapsing into her nest
I try to carry nothing
and in the dark
I hear a whisper
“there is never a shortage
of joy
of peace
of LOVE”
Broken
First it was the family van
too old too tired
then the 17 year old’s car was 1/2 broke
we drove it anyway, shortly after 100 percent broke
the dishwasher
the freezer detached from its mother
the fridge just had enough and full on quit
Chris’s tooth
I feared my body and mind were next
Our credit score
Elliot’s knees from growing too fast
I start to expect, things break
I ride my bike to work and hand wash my dishes
My parents gave us another car named reliable
I study stone walls and stained glass
uneven cracks held with iron and cement
tough as scars
I let go of trying to duct tape everything together
and let the Light in
I collect broken sea glass and shells and lay them on my window sill
and let the Light in
Lady Slipper
To my patron saint
The one I have known
And yet just recently met
The way you are rooted in power
In a place of paradox
Resilient and delicate
Shy and pale yet flaunting and glorious
Arisen after 16 years buried in
The deep acidic underground
Your survival
Depending on an entanglement with fungus
To reach ahold and pry the seed in your heart open
Sending a channel of nutrients
Your conspiracy
One way out
Making it just so you get
what you need from the bees
Bold postures of contradiction makes sense now
To have and to not yet have
To be and to hope to become
After many pilgrimages hoping to be gifted a visitation
A miraculous blessing
I lean in to listen
And slowly my legs root into the gap of paradox
And you whisper
Welcome home
A Yellow Door
a yellow door
we had leftover
bathroom pain
my body sore from exhaustion
gutted from the insides
I stare from safe
distances
for 3 days or 48 years
busying myself with nobler tasks
it burns like the sun
Inside the closed tight glass jars
of the deeps are stored
what if
I let go
completely, wholly, softly
and open it
the most noble task yet
And Yet
(Summer Grief)
Sorrow knocked at my gate
Summer losses felt heavier than Spring’s capacity
withered dried up dead flowers
unexpected unprepared
“Are you ok?” “How can you be?”
And Yet
deep in the underground a seed from
some forgotten year takes root
I planted Squash seeds
and up springs vines of plump Cucumbers
the soft peach Day Lilies
never lose their faith
Echinacea and Shasta Daisy
hang on tight to their crowns
the Sedum, though I get bored of her
adorns the sun with force
Zinnias do not understand
the word failure
I welcome Sorrow in and offer her a seat
next to Lavender, Sage, and Thyme
there are no words whispered
just a nod as we feel the breeze go in and out of our sleeves
and look at every living thing
that once was dead
but has come back to life

